The kindness of strangers: Making a home for refugees

With space in their family home, Dave and Pam from Wimbledon, applied for the Government’s Homes for Ukraine scheme to host a refugee fleeing the war in Ukraine. “It’s just us at home, as the kids have left” Pam said. “When the Syrian refugee scheme was open, we had thought about applying but the scheme closed. When the Ukraine scheme opened, we signed up.”

Following the application, Merton Council contacted Dave and Pam with more information and arranged to visit their property to make sure it was suitable.

Dave and Pam matched with Liudmyla, 43, through the Homes for Ukraine scheme and she has been living with them for a year and a half now.

“It was the first time a stranger had lived with us at home, and though we felt a bit nervous, we focused on welcoming our guest. For us retired people, having a younger person in the house adds life and vitality. It’s been enriching as we’ve been able to learn about another country, and a new way of looking at things, said Dave.”

“Liudmyla is a fantastic cook, and she’s made us delicious Ukrainian food. We’ve been fortunate that Liudmyla has fitted in very well and we all get along. Since she’s been here, her English is so much better, she’s working and has become very capable,” he added.

We asked Dave and Pam what their advice would be to someone considering opening their home to those fleeing the war in Ukraine, as part of this scheme. Pam said: “Think about how you would feel having someone in your home for at least six months – will it fit your life? You can contact the council for support, which has been very helpful. For us, it’s been a rewarding experience, and very stimulating. It has broadened our horizons and we have had lots of new experiences.”

Merton needs more hosts like Pam and Dave to take part in the Homes for Ukraine scheme. If you have at least one spare room and can provide six months of stable accommodation, please get in touch – you can change the course of someone’s life. As a host, you can access an optional ‘thank you’ payment.

To find out more, visit: http://www.merton.gov.uk/ukraine